can we just think for a moment about how pro lifers always say we should keep our pregnancies and “just have the baby”. Having a baby is not just going to fix all the issues that are required to care for a child. No funds to feed or cloth your child is abuse and then you are forcing people to have pregnancies? Wtf?
Also, before you argue about adoption. There are THOUSANDS UPON THOUSANDS of children already waiting to be adopted. There are older children in foster care waiting for an adoptive family. But you think we should be breeding mares for couples who want to adopt a newborn? No. That’s wrong.
There are flaws in pro life arguments but the arguments from pro choice are solid. We aren’t talking opinions on what is and isn’t life, we are talking about the ability to have a choice to what goes on with our bodies.
Adoption is great, if that’s the choice the person wants to take. Then that should be available to them. Just like abortion, it should be available. The thing is though, you want people to have their unwanted pregnancy and keep it but what future does this child have then? A future of being cut short and abuse?
You can’t just say “it’s better than being dead!” um excuse me but a fetus wouldn’t have known it was ever alive so it can’t know if life is better than death. So if I was forced to have my pregnancy and I have no home, no job, barely any income and I’m chronically unwell what should I say to them when they’re hungry? “there’s no food honey but you’re alive”
The scary thing is, the same pro-lifers will them sex shame people like me. People who are not fit for pregnancy but have sex. I should not have to withheld from a healthy sexual life because some scum bags like you want to control my uterus. No, fuck off.
artemis-moongodess asked: I would like to say Im sorry if you thought that I was trying to push my opinions on you or anyone else. I was not. I was just simply sharing my opinion and what I have learned on the matter. If you would like I will delete my original post. But I do ask (You do not have to) that you delete what you reposted also? I am feeling incredibly terrible for the fact that it is coming across as forcing it on people. I wasn't trying to do that and I am sorry. Please know I am being complete sincere.
I’ll delete it hun :)